• Develop Self-Trust so that you aren’t afraid to live, love, and connect. How the hell can you have healthy relationships if you can't trust anybody including yourself?
• Increase Self-Love. Self-love is the real dope. It's time you get high on your own supply. It's time to stop searching for what you already are and make your own lemonade! 
• Exude Self-Respect. You can easily teach others how to treat you so that you can more easily establish boundaries with yourself and others. Boo, it's time to pass out boundaries like Oprah passed out cars. Tell all of 'em "YOU GET A BOUNDARY. YOU GET A BOUNDARY.  AND DEFINITELY, YOU WHO ALWAYS NEED SOMETHING BUT only give dick and headaches- YOU GET 2 SHARES OF BOUNDARIES." I think Oprah ACTUALLY said that in her masterclass! *Don't report me.* 
• Expand Spiritual Growth. If you believe in a love bigger than yourself then you have a responsibility to honor yourself so that you don’t allow yourself to be paralyzed by the past, fear, anxiety, and doubt. Translation:  Make your beliefs your foundation. God loves you? Act like it. Period.
• Embrace Healthy Relationships. This goes without saying. When you practice self-love, you are happier. When you are happier all your relationships become more loving. You gotta unlearn that love is pain. This is the lie of trauma. You don't want your life to be based on a lie, do you?
• Become More Authentic and live from Integrity. This is a call to be real, be human, and be HONEST. It is you that created this tribe called humanity. You are out of excuses to SHINE YOUR LIGHT and live your truth.
• Heal Anger, rage, and resentment. I don’t need to explain why this is powerful.  Anger is killing you and it's killing your possibilities, opportunities, and experiences of love. You can't be angry as hell and open to love at the same damn time. Pick one and pick right!

You are crazy.

At least it feels that way sometimes. You got multiple personalities. (Sybil you say?)... At least you think that sometimes (you know you do) because you say you want peace in your relationships yet find yourself with MF's (plural)  who know peace as only piece.  They can't even spell the word, let alone know the definition of toxic. 

You say you want love and consideration yet you don't trust no damn body to do a damn thing for you. (Insert side-eye here.) You want the best for your children, yet you are overprotective and overreactive and low-key traumatizing them because you act crazy when it's not called for. Oh, you have dreams, but you quietly sabotage going after what your heart desires and can't explain why. I'm here to tell you that YES! You got some sh*t with you, but it ain't your fault. These are some of the ways trauma and dysfunction impact the heart and the spirit.

You have been protecting yourself and hurting yourself in the process. As much as you try to protect yourself from your past or your pain, you become a slave to your own version of self-medication. This is how you get by, and this behavior also keeps you from thriving in every relationship in every area of your life.

I will teach you the purpose behind your self-sabotage and give you the tools to stop the madness and have the AUDACITY love your own dirty drawers! (Insert smiley heart love laughing emoji here!) 

Get to know the God in you. 

Wait.

The title should be STOP ASKING GOD TO DO YOUR WORK. 

Auntie Iyanla done already told you! "You gotta tell the truth and clean this thing up!" 

It’s easy to pray and follow a prescribed curriculum as a spiritual practice, but you may find yourself feeling disconnected and alone.

Translation: Yes you read and all that..but you haven't taken the journey inside your heart. You haven't acknowledged your pain, your wounds, your sadness, or your participation in the madness. You still up here talking about you good and God will get you through. GOD IS TRYING TO GET THROUGH, but you're hard-headed as hell.

You ask for help, then go about trying to fix your problems with a hammer and drill when all you need is a good pooper-scooper. I know you been trying to "superwoman" your problems, but you need to add more knowledge to your arsenal. You're the Cure will teach you about the inner workings of your mind so that you can separate your ego from your Spirit.  You must re-build a new relationship with yourself based on your power- NOT your pain. You can heal yourself, but you can't do it alone. 

You are the common denominator. 

If you attract toxic people, manipulators, users, or emotionally unavailable partners- then it's YOU boo!  You are the common denominator. Dysfunctional relationships are a result of dysfunctional patterns and boundaries so…I'm talking to the woman in the mirror. Shamone! Without healing, you will repeat the cycle UNCONSCIOUSLY until you learn self-love, self-awareness, and self-trust.  You have the power to change if you are willing to choose that YOU are you're cure...

I'm Cerita Ibrahim. 

I am also known as The Whole Therapist and I can’t wait to meet you inside You’re the Cure.

I was born a statistic. This is my story. 

I come from a long line of strong women who were secretly broken and silently sad. They hid their pain, abuse, and resentment and they could be savage. They were loving and venomous at the same time. They subtly communicated their joys and with wrath expressed their rage. I had become that woman, a survivor of sexual abuse who smiled and suffered in silence.

I spent so much time trying, doing, planning, moving, striving, accomplishing that I lost track… Of ME. I wanted to stop running, saving, fixing, doing, and taking care of everyone else. I was tired but didn’t know how to rest. I wanted freedom but didn’t know I was enslaving myself. 

Who was I that with all my strength I could make things happen for other people, but I couldn’t make MYSELF happy? What was wrong with me that I kept having the same relationships? I had the same irresponsible, unloving, unavailable man over and over again in a different form with the same bullshit wrapped in different bodies and various sizes of penis.  My partners weren’t emotionally available and that’s because I WASN’T and I didn’t even know it because I was trying to protect my heart. 

I paid 6 figures to learn some of what I am going to teach you… I can distill it the way that I do because I love it AND I live it. I'm a therapist and a coach. I am a Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist and I have certifications in anger management, conflict management, mindfulness, NLP and I am a hypnotherapist.  I joke and I fake sing but I am driven by education and nurtured by laughter.

I healed my trauma with the same therapy I will teach you, and the best part is you can apply it to yourself without having to talk about the past. Healing changes everything, but nothing had to change in order for me to be happy. I knew I was different when I recognized that I felt complete.  I lost the attraction to conflict, self-destruction, the need to be right, and inserting myself in people’s lives so I could be seen.

Peace was my new drug and my silence was transformed. The voice I had been looking for emerged gently and loudly and came with a sense of respect I had never known. I was seen in every way by ME.  Self-love peeled away all the layers of trauma that caused me to forget my magnificence.

That’s why I created You're the Cure because too many Black women are struggling in relationships with themselves and their partners. If you want to stop the self-sacrifice, self-denial, and save yourself, You're the Cure is for you. You deserve happiness, peace, connection, and self-love. 

Honestly answer these questions:

• If not now, WHEN? When will you make yourself and your sanity a priority? 

• What would life be like if you KNEW you had the power to change your mind and lead with authority?

• What example would you set for your children and what legacy would you create if you lived from self-love?

• How much easier would it be to create, attract, and maintain a healthy relationship where YOU get YOUR needs met?

There is no time like the present to save yourself. You need to jump on this once in a lifetime price because I promise you it won’t get any better than this.

It's time to break the cycle and step into your power.

When you add that all up, it comes out to a value of $1,000,000 because peace of mind is priceless.

Where is the lie?

Right now, more than ever you have to make your peace of mind and mental health a priority.  Every dream, goal, choice, and passion begins as a choice. Take this opportunity to empower yourself to show up more in love in every area of your life. This discount pricing is designed to help you do just that. You do for everyone else, now it's time to take care of YOU.

I am offering a special pricing deal to support you during these uncertain times.

The regular cost is $297 a month.

This is INSANE!!!

We want you to be 100% confident when you enroll in, You’re the Cure and if you aren’t COMPLETELY satisfied you cancel anytime, but you won't want to!

You know you need this in your life so get your credit card out NOW because the system can't process your request without it. You know how these things work.   You won't be billed until after the trial period is over and you can cancel if you aren't satisfied. Do NOT continue to let fear or self-sabotage keep you in bondage.