All of your relationships are a reflection of the relationship you have with yourself.
You’ve been raised and praised to self-sacrifice and trained to always keep it movin’. You can't stand the idea of being weak, but you believe it so blindly that it's killing you silently.
A superwoman feels obligated to be strong even when it hurts...we call that people-pleasing.
This is why your relationships fail because the REAL you is nowhere to be found.
You're stuck with a sinking feeling of unworthiness and your relationships are suffering because you don't know who you are. There's hope because you're not alone.
SOMEBODY needs to tell you that your name ain’t Superwoman Harriet Tubman Imma Martyr Jones.
You’re doing all of the things – saving folks, sacrificing, praying, reading, affirming, and listening to every MF podcast on iTunes (sometimes you even put on Kevin Samuels for which I will side-eye you later, but I digress)...
You're trying to fix your life, but YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT The REAL PROBLEM IS.
Lemme break it down...
Relational trauma influences how your identity and it makes the possibility of a healthy relationship impossible. Trauma has taught you that love is pain and that you must protect yourself at all costs, but you're doing it wrong because you end up hurt anyway! It's all unconscious which is why all the shit you've tried doesn't work! You've abandoned yourself and it's not a declaration of love... it's self-abuse. Stop hurting yourself and heal your trauma by learning how to Love U.
All of the self-help and toxic positivity in the world won’t fix you until you Learn U... and you don't have to heal alone. You've tried the quick fixes of self-medication laced with denial wrapped in broken promises. Band-Aids.
You need that permanent Gorilla Glue kinda healing…
It’s time you stop making fucking excuses and BREAKTHROUGH so you can:
❤️ Finally experience feeling the peace of being whole because the one you've been looking for is YOU.
❤️ OWN YOUR POWER ALREADY. Confidently pursue your purpose, trust YOURSELF, and lean into your faith because the God in you has waited long enough.
❤️ Stop being toxic and enjoy healthy, loving, and balanced relationships where you get YOUR needs met.
❤️ Embrace intimacy and closeness, tighter bonds, and more authentic relationships because vulnerability is your superpower and a whole man don't want half of you.
❤️ End your attraction to toxic, dependent, addicted, irresponsible, or emotionally unavailable lovers because that shit is life-threatening and draining.
❤️ Breakfree from your crippling fear of abandonment that keeps you bonded to MF you don't even like.
❤️ Break-up with struggle love, friends with no benefits, and "complicated" relationships because damaged dick causes damage and your soul wants better for you.
❤️ Become a better parent, break generational curses, and teach your children the power of self-love so they don't become victims of their own pain and unworthiness.
❤️ LOVE U like your life depends on it..because it does.
You too can make these changes in your life...
Here’s what she said about her transformation through
“This class has been such a blessing to me. Since starting I walked away from a relationship, I exercise daily, I have PEACE, I’ve started 2 businesses I do makeup and teach classes and I sell jewelry... And I’ve returned to plus size modeling. I am more determined now to go after the life I want and if a thing or person does not line up with it, then goodbye. I mourned the life I wanted and expected to have at 43 and I’m building a new life from where I am and accepting the things that didn’t happen. I’m growing and learning to trust God more and I’m realizing more and more that I am not in control but to just trust His leading. I love me more and [am] working on obtaining my heart’s desires.”
Love U is a weekly membership for ambitious women who are ready to heal the heartbreak of relational trauma using the tools of therapy and the power of spirituality so they can enjoy authentic self-love, divine self-trust, and embrace intimate relationships.
Explore how trauma created your struggle with emotions, closeness, trust, communication, and safety in relationships
Learn how to re-establish a relationship with your Self to heal your inner child and unpack your emotional baggage
Return to wholeness & own your self-worth. Tune into your intuition, emotional, and spiritual needs to create healthy love
Love U is a perfect fit for you if…
✔ You’re a Black woman ready to heal unworthiness and heartbreak.
✔ You have a history of toxic, unhealthy, or soul-sucking relationships
✔ You’ve experienced trauma, abuse, or emotional neglect
✔ You’re a superwoman or fixer and you’re ready to retire cuz 'ya tiyad and you're ready to be on purpose
✔ You want to create and attract whole relationships that reflect your beauty and not your brokeness
✔ You’ve been looking for a tribe that will love you AND call you on your shit because you want REAL love and authentic accountability
Love University is NOT for you if…
✖ You’re not a Black woman
✖ You hate cussin’ or folks being authentically human or you're a Debbie Fuckin' Downer
✖ You’re looking for Duct Tape, Band-aids, or a fantasy to solve your problems
✖ You’re judgmental, shaming, dismissive and you already know every-damn-thing