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If you've been feeling desperate and dehydrated wondering if you are crazy or broken, then it's time for you to learn U.
The Issue Isn't Your All Powerful Cape...
The problem is you don't know who you are without it. You know your strength when it comes to rescuing and caretaking, yet you stumble and fumble when it's time to take care of yourself. You're stressed and exhausted making it look easy.
No one REALLY knows your secret identity. The part of you that cries silently. The part that loses faith and will both need help and at the same time refuse it. If you are ready to meet your own magnificence, it's time to Love U.
No One Should Have to Carry the Weight of the World and Suffer the Heaviness Alone.
It's not your fault. It's not your fault that you want love and struggle with vulnerability and trust. It's not your problem that you have inherited generational trauma and dysfunction that's been handed down like a family heirloom.
None of what you have been through started with you, but it is your responsibility to heal. It's time to break the cycles of pain, lovelessness, and disconnection. You need a tribe to support and affirm you. Love U is the sisterhood you've always needed. Don't take my word for it, start your free trial today.
Get to Know Your Guide
I come from a long line of strong women who were secretly broken and silently sad. They hid their pain, abuse, and resentment and they could be savage. I had become that woman, a survivor of sexual abuse who smiled and suffered in silence.
I paid 6 figures to learn some of what I am going to teach you… I can distill it the way that I do because I love it AND I live it. I'm a therapist and a coach. I am a Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist and I have certifications in anger management, conflict management, and mindfulness.
I healed my trauma with the same therapy I will teach you, and the best part is you can apply it to yourself without having to talk about the past.
You are capable of this and so much more. It's time to stop hiding and shed shame and blame. Trust yourself enough to take control of your life. Join Love U.
Not sure if Love U is right for you?
- You're a BLACK superwoman or rescuer or caretaker
- Attract narcissists, manipulators, or inappropriate toxic people
- Struggle with setting clear, direct, non-negotiable boundaries with consequences
- Want to save yourself from self-sacrifice, self-sabotage, and people-pleasing
- Experienced childhood trauma or a dysfunctional family
It's not for everyone, and truth be told we’d prefer to help you figure this out BEFORE you join.
Love U is NOT For:
- Anybody who is not a Black woman
- You aren't willing to be curious and compassionate with yourself
- You hate cussin' or cursing or people being authentically human
- You’re looking for a Band-Aid, Duct tape, or Gorilla Glue to solve your problems
- You are judgmental, shaming, or negative
Love U means unlimited support
All superwomen are remarkable, but few are aware of the mighty armor that is their CAPE. Superwomen possess four qualities that make them impervious to mere human emotions so they can get sh*t done. Sadly, this power also sucks the love out of their lives. If you possess these qualities you are amazing indeed, but are you happy?
Black Superwoman Syndrome:
- Obligation to manifest superstrength
- Obligation to use mind control to suppress emotions
- Obligation to appear super independent resisting vulnerability and all kinds of dependence
- Obligation to manipulate boundaries giving you the determination to succeed against all odds
Your capacity to give, rescue, put-up-with, caretake, and control makes you needed, but it doesn’t secure love. In fact, these qualities ensure overwhelm, toxic relationships, and deadly stress levels.
No one should have to choose between ME vs WE. This is the great injustice that too many Black women must face. Join Love U so you can learn how to love you AND everyone else without denying your needs.
