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It's been running your life and ruining your relationships. Relational trauma will leave you feeling stuck, lonely, and unworthy. It’s time to break free. 

It's been running your life and ruining your relationships. Relational trauma will leave you feeling stuck, lonely, and unworthy. It’s time to break free. 

You don’t have to continue sacrificing yourself, suppressing your emotions, and pretending to be strong. Trauma shapes your thinking and blocks your ability to love and connect.

 

It’s high time you unpacked your emotional baggage so you have the power to:
  • Learn how to love, accept, and appreciate all of you unconditionally.
  • Experience real peace that surpasses all understanding without needing other people to change.
  • Communicate your feelings without guilt – even when it makes others uncomfortable. 
  • Learn how to ask for what you really want and need instead of settling or compromising. 
  • Set and enforce boundaries that keep you emotionally, mentally, and physically safe.
  • Stop trying to control every damn thing all the damn time and RELAX. 
  • Live free from fear, self-doubt, unworthiness, and self-sabotage so that you can practice authentic faith and self-trust. 
  • Finally, cancel the perfectionism that is blocking your purpose and peace.
All of which has led to a cycle of depression that keeps you locked in an unfulfilling life filled with disrespect and disappointment.
Join Love University

I’m not saying it’ll be easy, because it’s not.

You’ve been raised and praised to self-sacrifice and trained to always keep it movin’. You put everybody and everything before your self-care. As a superwoman, you feel obligated to be strong even when it hurts. You’ve spent so much time pretending to be perfect that you refuse to fail despite obstacles, limitations, or exhaustion…but no matter what you accomplish you’re still stuck with this sinking feeling of unhappiness, and your relationships are suffering.  
And you don’t have to continue to front pretending to be strong. You're exhausted and you don't even realize that all of this stems from trauma and it looks like: 

 

🖤 Emotional, physical, sexual abuse or neglect
🖤Abandoment or betrayal
🖤 Being shamed, dismissed, devalued, or denied for having your own thoughts, feelings, and perspectives as a child
🖤 Toxic or narcissistic partners who manipulate, lie, gaslight, and cheat all the while blaming you for being the problem
🖤 Dysfunctional parents who were narcissist, addicted, controlling, shaming, inconsistent, or absent
🖤Parents who gave you everything you needed physically but emotionally they were shut down, numb, invalidating, or shaming
🖤Any relational violation that disrupts your sense of trust and safety in the world 

 

The truth is, you've been hurt and IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. It's trauma. You CRAVE love and connection, but you also FEAR it.  You're stuck and defensive, but instead of healing your heart after disappointment and low-key depression, you put on your mask and your cape telling yourself that you're fine. Because you’re superwoman and you can heal on your own. Right?

 

Hell Nah.
I'm ready for my breakthrough

Your name ain’t Superwoman Harriet Tubman Imma Martyr Jones.

You’re doing all of the things – saving folks, sacrificing yourself, praying, reading, reciting affirmations, and listening to every MF personal development podcast on iTunes – but you still feel like you're not good enough because the problem is you're trying to fix your life, but YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOUR PROBLEM IS. 

Lemme break it down...

Relational trauma influences how you see yourself and it makes the possibility of a healthy relationship impossible.  Trauma has taught you that love is pain and that you must protect yourself at all costs, but you're doing it wrong because you end up hurt anyway! Self-abandonment isn't a declaration of love... it's self-abuse. Stop hurting yourself by learning how to Love U.

All of the self-help and toxic positivity in the world won’t fix you until you Learn U... and you don't have to heal alone. 

You've tried the quick fixes of self-medication laced with denial wrapped in broken promises to yourself. Band-Aids.

You need that permanent Gorilla Glue kinda healing…

 
It’s time you BREAKTHROUGH so you can:
❤️ Finally experience feeling the peace of being whole and complete without the fear of failure
❤️ Confidently pursue your purpose, trust YOURSELF, and lean into your faith
❤️ Enjoy healthy, loving, and balanced relationships 
❤️ Embrace intimacy and closeness, tighter bonds, and more authentic relationships
❤️ End your attraction to toxic, dependent, addicted, irresponsible, or emotionally unavailable lovers
❤️ Breakfree from your crippling fear of abandonment that keeps you from living and loving
❤️ Break-up with struggle love, friends with no benefits, and "complicated" relationships
❤️ Become a better parent, break generational curses, and teach your children how to love themselves
❤️ LOVE U like your life depends on it 
 

Here’s what she said about her transformation through

“This class has been such a blessing to me. Since starting I walked away from a relationship, I exercise daily, I have PEACE, I’ve started 2 businesses I do makeup and teach classes and I sell jewelry... And I’ve returned to plus size modeling. I am more determined now to go after the life I want and if a thing or person does not line up with it, then goodbye. I mourned the life I wanted and expected to have at 43 and I’m building a new life from where I am and accepting the things that didn’t happen. I’m growing and learning to trust God more and I’m realizing more and more that I am not in control but to just trust His leading. I love me more and [am] working on obtaining my heart’s desires.”

 You Today: 

 You 90 Days From Now: 

Exhausted and feeling broken because your life and relationships aren’t working. Your unfulfilled, your rap sheet got a body count, failed relationships, and a purpose you want to live in- but you're STUCK and unhappy.

You are COMPLETE livin' life like it's golden! You're fulfilled, connected, and loved enjoying your family, relationships, career, and faith free of insecurity and shame. You honor yourself and you aren't afraid to take risks because you know you lead with love.

Operating like a superwoman sacrificing your wants, needs, and feelings while resenting it because you don't know how to say NO. You save folks on the regular but secretly want to be saved, yet you can't stand asking for help. Complicated YOU ARE.

Burn the fucking cape. You're no longer responsible for other people's feelings or problems. You allow others to take responsibility for themselves and  you honor yourself by setting boundaries to protect yourself from patterns and pain because you Love U. 

Attracting broken, unavailable, emotionally immature, empty, narcissistic, or manipulative partners who lack integrity, self-respect,  and honesty...  OR you find the nice guys BORING.

Listen, you know who you are and what you want.  You are loveable, deserving, and no longer need to earn love or prove your worth. You KNOW you're worthy because you exist. You're a WHOLE woman attracting WHOLE love and it comes easy to you.

Numb and defensive to your emotions and unable to communicate what you really want and feel so you shut down or bottle it up until you explode and go the f*ck off. 

Live your TRUTH. You no longer play small. You're no longer afraid of your voice. You're honest without guilt or shame. Speaking your truth and emotional maturity are your jam because you honor your feelings as the soundtrack to your life. 

You're super afraid of abandonment. You feel insecure, unworthy, unlovable, and lonely even when you're in a relationship. You don't REALLY let people in because you don't trust no-damn-body and you fiercely try to protect your heart..but you do a poor job because you're sensitive and still get hurt. 

You're fulfilled. You're no longer afraid of being alone or abandoned because you no longer abandon yourself. You practice unconditional self-love and authentic self-worth that comes from within. You are confident knowing you are never alone as a loved divine child of God.

You got trust issues.  You don't trust yourself, others, and even your trust in God is a little shaky.  You were taught to be silent about what goes on in your house and your heart which leaves you feeling alone and unsupported, BUT YOU CAN'T HEAL ALONE.

Your faith has deepened because you know the God in you. You have the tools of transformation and you apply them. You accept your superpower of love for yourself. You trust yourself because you've allowed yourself to human, honest, and vulnerable.  You're a member of a tribe that's committed to your growth and healing. You have family in the sisterhood of Love U.

I’m Ready to Love Me

 You Today: 

 You 90 Days From Now: 

Exhausted and feeling broken because your life and relationships aren’t working. Your unfulfilled, your rap sheet got a body count, failed relationships, and a purpose you want to live in- but you're STUCK and unhappy.

You are COMPLETE livin' life like it's golden! You're fulfilled, connected, and loved enjoying your family, relationships, career, and faith free of insecurity and shame. You honor yourself and you aren't afraid to take risks because you know you lead with love.

Operating like a superwoman sacrificing your wants, needs, and feelings while resenting it because you don't know how to say NO. You save folks on the regular but secretly want to be saved, yet you can't stand asking for help. Complicated YOU ARE.

Burn the fucking cape. Toxic people, places, and behaviors are put on notice. You are your own ride-or-die because YOU got your back. You set boundaries to protect yourself from patterns and pain because you love you.

Attracting broken, unavailable, emotionally immature, empty, and selfish partners who lack integrity, self-respect,  and honesty.  OR you find the nice guys BORING.

Listen, because you see yourself as you are- worthy, loveable, and divine- you can not and will not tolerate being treated with disrespect. Your heart is open so you easily express and attract love. You a WHOLE woman attracting WHOLE men and it comes easy to you. 

Numb and defensive to your emotions and unable to communicate what you really want and feel so you shut down or bottle it up until you explode and go the f*ck off. 

Speak your TRUTH. You no longer play small. You're no longer afraid of your voice. You're honest without guilt or shame. Self-expression and emotional maturity are your jam because YOU are in control of the soundtrack to your life. 

Feel insecure, unworthy, unlovable, and lonely even when you're in a relationship. You don't REALLY let people in because you don't trust no-damn-body and you fiercely try to protect your heart..but you do a poor job because you're sensitive and still get hurt. 

You feel so damn good that you can't help but protect your peace. It's as natural as breathing. You Practicing unconditional self-love and authentic self-worth that comes from within. You are confident and you KNOW who you are. You plays NO games because you're all LOVE as a divine child of God. 

Believe people are not to be trusted. You don't trust yourself and even your trust in God is a little shaky because you wonder about some of his decisions. You were taught to be silent and not talk about what goes on in your house and your heart. 

Your faith has deepened because you know the God in you. You accept your superpower of love for yourself. You trust yourself because you've allowed yourself to human, honest, and vulnerable. You are a part of a tribe that's committed to your growth and healing. You have family in the sisterhood of Love U.

I’m Ready to Love Me

Introducing

Love U is a weekly membership for ambitious women who are ready to heal the heartbreak of relational trauma so they can burn the fucking cape, enjoy peace of mind, and create the happy relationships they deserve.
Explore how trauma distorts, depresses, and disconnects you from being able to give and receive healthy love.
Learn how to re-parent your wounds so you can re-vision your future by re-establishing a relationship with yourSELF or Soul.
Practice radical Soul-Love, authenticity,  and self-connection to deepen your relationships with God and those you love.

When you enroll today, you’ll get...

  •  14-Day Free Trial
  • Access to the Rebirth Process to guide you through the step-by-step process of healing relational trauma and learning self-love
  •  Weekly 2-Hour Group Coaching Tuesday  6:30PM EST/ 3:30 PST/ 5:30 CST/ 4:30MT
  •  Unlimited Access to the Love U Library
  • Access to the Love U Facebook Tribe
  • Lesson workbooks, assessments, and assignments
  • Free admission to all events, retreats, and workshops
  • Invites to bonus coaching sessions
  • Cancel anytime

Total value = $299 a month
TODAY’S PRICE $79 A MONTH

I’m ready to enroll now!

How It Works:

Click the link to secure your free trial membership.
Immediately enroll into the membership and start the LOVE U Curriculum.
Burn Your Fucking Cape and Love U.

Show up to the weekly 2 Hour Masterclass & Q&A sessions.

Sign Me Up!

I’m so excited to meet you!

 

My name is Cerita Yvonne. I am a therapist, teacher, coach, relational trauma expert, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and hypnotherapist. I’m also a recovered codependent perfectionist, sexual abuse survivor, and retired superwoman transformed into a super woman. For too long I wore a cape that I inherited from strong women who were secretly heartbroken. I tried all the “things” to heal, but I needed real self-love special ed so I became a therapist.

I was toxic and didn’t know it until I learned about the spiritual and emotional devastation of trauma and it was silently sucking the love and joy out of my life. The ROOT of my pain and unworthiness had to be healed so that I could feel whole and experience real love. I created Love University because I know so many Black women are struggling with the same dis-ease of disappointment, loneliness, and perfectly hidden depression while pretending to be strong. It doesn’t have to be this way! I can’t wait to teach you how to heal, enjoy life, and Love U.

I look forward to seeing you in class!

Always in love,

Save me a seat sis!

Love U is a perfect fit for you if…

✔ You’re a Black women ready to heal unworthiness and heartbreak
✔ You have a history of toxic, unhealthy, or soul-sucking relationships
✔ You’ve experienced trauma, abuse, or emotional neglect
✔ You’re a superwoman or fixer and you’re ready to retire and enjoy life
✔ You want to create, attract, or maintain healthy and loving relationships
✔ You’ve been looking for a tribe that will love and support you

Love University is NOT for you if…

✖ You’re not a Black woman
✖ You hate cussin’ or people being authentically human
✖ You’re looking for Duct Tape, Band-aids, or a man to solve your problems
✖ You’re judgmental, shaming, dismissive and you already know every-damn-thing

I'm ready to release my emotional baggage

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